If you’ve landed here I’m guessing your heart is crying out for freedom.
Freedom to do the things you want, when you want, without being restricted by time, money, or circumstances.
I’m also guessing you’re already on the “freedom path”:
You’re either running your own business – so there is no limit on the amount of money you can earn and you get to choose the hours you work.
Or you want to set up your own business to give you the freedom you crave.
You’ve probably hired mentors and attended trainings to learn exactly what you need to know.
You’ve almost certainly identified unconscious blocks and have been working through them and healing them so they are no longer holding you back
You’ve been reading the books, and doing the work
Compared to where you were a few years ago life is great.
And yet …
Despite all the work, all the training, everything you’ve done and experienced, you’re still not where you want to be.
On the surface it looks like everything is working out and things are going well.
But when you’re on your own and get really honest with yourself (and it takes a lot of courage to do this) you know you’re not living the life you truly desire.
You’re not actually experiencing the deep, deep fulfillment that your heart and soul crave.
You know the feeling – the one that wells up inside of you and lights you up so much that you feel great simply because you’re alive?
When you’re in that space it doesn’t matter what is going on around you because you feel on top of the world.
Life is amazing.
You’re vibrant, you feel so alive, you shine love and light on yourself and everyone around you.
For a few moments – maybe even several hours or days – everything is absolutely perfect.
Yet does it seem that no matter how high you climb, that feeling doesn’t seem to last very long?
Despite the wonderful ups there’s always a down on the other side.
You see I know that living a life you totally love, full of joy, excitement, adventure, freedom and fun… each and every day can be your reality.
I know because I am now living it – and just a few years ago I wasn’t – far from it.
I was living in a world of frustration, disappointment, hurt, sadness, anger, and not feeling good enough (although no-one would ever have known because I kept that part of myself well hidden).
I thought if I changed myself and my circumstances then my life would change.
I worked very hard on my own personal and spiritual growth, and whilst on the surface everything looked great, inside I still felt like I was letting myself down – that I was capable of so much more.
But deep within I knew that the joy and fulfilment I craved was possible but somehow sensed that I wouldn’t discover it on the path I’d been on.
So I started exploring a different path and discovered that:
The reason I wasn’t experiencing the freedom and deep fulfilment and joy I craved was because I’d been searching in a place it could never be found (EVER)!
A bit like the film Titanic – the version with Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet. Right at the start of the film there’s a salvage crew searching for a very valuable diamond necklace belonging to the heroine Rose.
They believed it had sunk with the ship and were desperate to find it and make their fortune.
However they never found the necklace and eventually gave up and called off the search.
Moments later we see Rose take it out of her pocket, then throw it in the ocean.
It was impossible for the crew to find the necklace because it wasn’t where they were searching!
Instead it had been right under their noses out of sight.
It’s the same for us.
We seek freedom and fulfillment in a place where it’s not!
You see freedom is NOT what everyone thinks it is.
Freedom has NOTHING to do with how much free time you have or how much money you have.
That’s actually an illusion everyone believes to be true.
It’s not the truth.
Freedom is a feeling.
It’s a state of mind.
It’s a way of being.
Although I don’t expect you to believe me or take my word for it.
To get this you have to experience it for yourself.
After all we live in a world that teaches us that having money and time = freedom.
The very fabric of our society is based on it.
We have plenty of examples that “prove” that this is true.
Countless testimonials within the business growth arena confirm it.
If you’re in the club – making more money and spending time doing the things you love – you feel great.
If you’re not – and your income is drying up or you’re working so hard you don’t have a life apart from work – you feel lousy a lot of the time.
And looking back on your life – it doesn’t matter what you do, how hard you work, how many experts you follow you will notice a cyclical pattern.
For a while things are going well – life is good – you feel great.
Then something goes wrong (either you “sabotage yourself” or something happens outside of your control) and suddenly you feel lousy again.
So you pick yourself up, dust yourself off and keep going – onwards and upwards!
You draw on everything you’ve ever learnt to get you through the difficult patch.
But if you were to stop and look at your life from outer space you would see the relentless pattern playing out over and over:
Life is finally starting to go well, then you’re hit with a setback.
Joy followed by despair.
Hope followed by bitter disappointment.
Excitement followed by paralysing fear.
And it keeps happening over and over.
If you’ve read this far I am fairly certain you are already familiar with your own patterns.
You’re probably working very hard to try to stop them from playing out.
Convincing yourself that the disappointments and frustrations are getting less, and you’re moving forward.
And indeed you are – you have already transformed your life in so many ways.
But then ….
You find yourself back at that familiar place of despair.
Questioning whether it’s all worth it.
Really worth all this stress and struggle?
Isn’t it supposed to be getting better?
Surely you should have figured it out by now?
Haven’t you worked on yourself enough?
Where’s the treasure everyone else seems to be experiencing?
What do all those “really successful” people have that you don’t?
“Why not me?” you ask yourself.
And so you become a little more resigned.
Thinking “What’s the point?”
But of course you don’t stay there.
You once again dig yourself out of this hole.
What’s the alternative?
Most people are in agreement that life is a spiral and the downs are all part of the journey.
And I know exactly how that feels.
That was me.
Lying awake at night beating myself up because I wasn’t doing what I knew I should be doing
Struggling to find clients because I wasn’t taking consistent action (even though I was actually really good at generating leads and enrolling clients)
Feeling bitterly disappointed after talking to a prospect – thinking everything was going so well and they were a dead cert – only to have them say “sounds great but it’s not for me”. Or worse, I would give them way more leeway than normal and agree to let them “think about it” only to have them vanish off the face of the earth. Then of course I would beat myself up even more shouting “Come on Melina – you should have known better, you teach this stuff!”
Feeling like I didn’t belong everywhere I went – trying desperately to fit in yet always feeling left out.
Feeling ashamed when a promotion bombed.
Feeling totally unsupported by everyone around me (even though I knew that wasn’t actually the truth).
And here’s the thing, I wasn’t starting out in business and still waiting for that magic moment of success.
I already had already had a 6 figure business and a LOT of success teaching people how to find high paying clients and increase their income.
I had great testimonials and delighted clients.
I was even nominated for a business growth award based on my results:
I went from £13,512 to £111,533 in just 2 years.
- I filled a group coaching programme generating £44,485 in sales in just 8 working days
- In one week I did £25,792 in sales
- I invested well over £120,000 in my own growth and development
- I experimented with lots of different price points for various programmes – the lowest I charged was £97, the highest, £16,000
- I travelled by private helicopter to get to an event on time (that was a completely magical “out of the blue” experience and a great story I’ll share with you sometime)
- I stayed at luxury 5 star resorts many times
- I took lots of time off to spend time with my two gorgeous children
- I ran high end luxurious retreats in magical places
- We had wonderful family holidays overseas in beautiful villas
We moved into our dream home.
People looked at what I’d created and wanted what I had.
And yes there were many, many times on that journey when everything was amazing.
Times when I pinched myself to make sure I wasn’t dreaming.
I remember saying to myself at one point:
“You mean I get to stay in beautiful places, coach amazing people and get paid really really well for it”.
I had some awesome experiences and times when I truly felt like I’d gone to heaven.
But the joy was always short-lived – either something would happen or I would slam on the brakes and it was back to feeling bad about myself.
And I’d done so much personal development that I felt that I “shouldn’t be here”.
Truth was I felt totally trapped.
I’d stepped up so massively so there was no way I could turn my back on my business and get a job – I could never see myself earning the income I needed.
The only job I could envisage having was as a waitress – so ever practical I ran the numbers.
Work 37 hours on minimum wage and make £266.40 a week.
Or continue coaching where I was earning between £150 and £250 an hour.
Mmm let me think about that one ….
But I was exhausted.
Exhausted with the constant see-sawing of emotions – up and down, depending on what was happening around me.
Feeling amazing when things went well.
Rubbish when they went belly up.
Over and over.
It didn’t matter:
how “successful” I was
how much money I made
how amazing I pretended my life was
If I wasn’t feeling great and that my life had some purpose – my success really counted for nothing.
In the words of Robin Williams:
Intuitively I knew that nothing would change unless I could totally banish my “not enough” story and break free of the patterns that kept playing out in my life. And that the path I had been on up until that point was not going to give me what I craved deep down.
And I knew it wasn’t about changing myself.
You see that’s what most people teach.
They teach us that if we can change the way we think, feel and behave then our lives will improve.
If we focus on what we want and where we’re headed, and do the inner and outer work then we will get to where we want to go.
Change your thoughts – change your life
And at the beginning it worked. I had some great results – as did my clients.
Yet after 10 years of growing myself and my business I still felt like I was not living up to my true potential.
If achieving success didn’t really make a difference in how I felt about myself what would?
And so with the help of awesome mentors and teachers I started to question and challenge EVERYTHING I believed to be true about myself, about God, about the universe about reality and about life itself.
And I discovered that:
Constantly trying to change fix and improve my life was the very thing which was keeping me trapped.
A luxurious empowering trap!
A never ending cycle of change, fix and improve.
Life can always be “better”.
We can always “have more”.
We can always “be more”.
We can always “do more”.
Always. Always. Always.
After all, how much is “enough”?
I came to experience at a very deep and profound level that the only way to escape the trap was to see life from an entirely different perspective.
To experience life radically differently (and I mean radically).
To witness what it really means to be human – how all our fears, concerns, anxieties, self-doubts, dreams, desires, hopes and wishes – are all illusions.
And not just to understand this at an intellectual level.
Understanding is wonderful but it doesn’t transform your life.
Transformation happens only when your experience of the world changes.
That’s the journey I’ve taken and the path I’m inviting you to follow.
Now my “not good enough” story rarely plays out.
Things I was afraid of have simply fallen away.
I no longer want to curl up in a ball and have the world stop and my troubles miraculously vanish.
That feeling of resignation, of “what’s the point?” has completely gone.
I own the value I bring to the world – and I’m not just acting as if that were true – I stand in that place. People feel it.
And yet sharing this experience is still so very difficult to put into words.
Because as you read you’re trying to fit what I’m saying into the framework you already know.
And what I am teaching is completely outside of that framework.
You have to step outside of your known reality to experience it.
I remember being at an event a little while ago and watching a speaker on stage.
She was amazing – the whole audience loved her. She was brilliant, authentic and spoke with such integrity – everyone wanted to learn from her. I was in awe of who she was and what she’d accomplished.
But as she walked off the stage I watched her face. I saw the doubt and fear:
Was what she said good enough?
Did people like it?
What did they think of her?
The exact same feelings I had experienced over and over.
To the rest of the world she had “made it” and was living her dream.
Yet underneath she was no different to you or I, a child desperately wanting love and acknowledgement – unable to truly see for herself the impact she was making – seeking reassurance from others – and her results – that she’d done a good job.
Her innermost fears hiding behind a mask of success and accomplishment.
In that moment I realised that no matter what we achieve, what we accomplish, how successful we are, our patterns still play out resulting in inner turmoil.
It’s part of being human.
And the ONLY way to stop the patterns dead in their tracks is to Experience the Truth of who WE really are.
And that means going on a journey.
An extraordinary, amazing, wonderful, magical journey.
I should warn you though that it could be the most challenging journey you’ll ever undertake.
Aswell as the most fun you’ve ever had.
An adventure for your mind, heart and soul.
And once you’ve traversed the choppy terrain you’ll notice an extraordinary difference:
No more self-doubt,
No more worries about what might or might not happen,
No more being concerned about what other people think,
No stern words about procrastinating or wasting time
No more “shoulds” or “shouldn’ts”,
No concerns about the future,
No more blame,
No more shame,
No more agonising over decisions for days on end,
No more comparing myself with others and finding yourself lacking.
Instead you’ll experience life with
the joy and wonder of a child
and the wisdom of a sage.
Yes ok, I know you’re probably a bit skeptical and doubting, thinking “yeah right”!
After all we’ve all heard so many stories from people who say “my life was awful, then I did this and now it’s amazing, and you can do it too”.
This is NOT one of those paths.
On this journey there are no strategies to follow and no “to do” list.
You have your own path to forge.
Your own wisdom to follow.
Your own heart to trust.
So look deep within and listen to your heart.
There’s a reason you’ve read this far.
If you’re meant to join me on this path you will hear the truth in what I say.
And be excited about what’s possible for you.
And now all you have to decide if you’d like to traverse this particular path full of magic and adventure.
But before you do I will warn you:
- It’s not for the faint hearted.
- It will take a lot of courage
- You will be required to dig deep within yourself
- You will face challenges (and want to run a mile)
- You won’t always like what you are experiencing.
But the rewards are extraordinary:
- You will experience miracles and magic in so many ways
- You will start living your life from a place of joy and appreciation – no matter what is happening around you
- The “it’s great to be alive” feeling will be the norm – not the exception
- Your “not good enough” story will start to fade and will gradually disappear completely
- Repeating patterns will stop playing out
- You will even experience other people treating you better
You will finally experience the freedom you dream of
Then join me as we step through the:
A magical journey that will re-align the cells in your body and open you up to magic, adventure, miracles and freedom.
Yes, I am aware it’s a big bold promise but I have witnessed too many miracles on my own journey and that of others to be shy about what’s possible for you.
Magical moments, amazing shifts and extraordinary opportunities show up when you yes to freedom and adventure and ignore that voice of logic and reason which says “What? Are you crazy?”
Magic isn’t linear – nor does it follow a set path – it occurs in the moment.
You will be part of a small group of up to 6 people.
Joining me in person for 2 magical days on 21st and 22nd September.
And the magic will start as soon as you register.
Every experience I create is individually tailored to ensure you experience the shifts that are needed in your life right now.
When you register you’ll receive a brief questionnaire to answer in as much detail as you wish to share. This helps me get to know you and create an experience which will serve and support you.
Then we’ll speak one-to-one on the phone or by Skype. The call will last about an hour – but we might go over or under. I don’t clock watch!
We’ll explore the adventures you’d like to have, aswell as the patterns playing out scuppering your dreams.
From the very beginning your life will start aligning with possibility and freedom.
There may be one or or two adventures to take on over the summer to support your journey (aswell as a couple of books to read).
Otherwise you’ll go about your daily life experiencing magic and awesome encounters until …
We meet in person in beautiful Shropshire on 21st and 22nd September.
Starting at 10:30 am on the 21st and finishing at 6:30pm on 22nd.
Your mind will be blown.
Your eyes will shine with excitement.
You will learn a lot.
You will be stretched.
You will be out of your comfort zone – yet feel so safe and supported.
All accompanied with delicious food and great company.
Everything you experience will be carefully choreographed so you experience the freedom and adventure you crave (with some unexpected magic thrown in of course).
Amidst this extraordinary experience I will be sharing:
- The truth about living your life from a place of freedom and deep, deep fulfillment (I promise you this is nothing like you’ve learnt before)
- Why, no matter how hard you try or how much effort you put in, you still aren’t experiencing the life you desire
- How to trust every single decision you make and know with absolute certainty it’s the right one
- How setting intentions and working towards goals often leads to heart-ache – (even though for a while it does feel like you’ve hit the jackpot and gone to heaven).
- How to open up and receive what your heart and soul truly desire – not what you think you desire
- How to stop repeating patterns from showing up forever
- And so much more …
But more than anything you will experience a deep and profound shift.
You will witness the patterns currently playing out in your life in a way you’ve never seen before.
You will start to trust at a deep deep level:
Trusting the Divine
You will experience beyond all shadow of a doubt that you are on the “right” path – and the vicious voices which tell you you’re wrong, you’re stupid, you’re bad, you’re selfish, you’re lazy, you’re not good enough, you’re crazy, you’re…. whatever you say to yourself when you’re beating yourself up and being hard on yourself – will gradually lessen until they disappear completely.
You will begin to love yourself in a way you never have before – and it won’t feel fake. You will look in the mirror and see yourself as amazing.
Believe me I’ve stood in your shoes.
I was so hard on myself – even when I was making a massive difference in people’s lives.
But I always said yes when something spoke to my heart (even if it wasn’t always convenient)
And that’s what I’m asking of you.
To listen to your heart.
To be guided by your inner wisdom that knows!
(even though it may make no logical sense whatsoever).
I’m asking you to trust that feeling – the one that totally bypasses the mind.
When I look back on the choices I’ve made that have impacted me profoundly and deeply – every one of those decisions was made from within – from that deep knowing that didn’t care what other people thought –my heart simply said “yes” and I acted accordingly.
And that’s the place from which I am asking you to decide – to look within and choose with your heart and soul.
It’s never wrong.
And if you are ready for this path of magic and adventure, I welcome you with open arms.
There are 2 ways you can get started.
Click on the Buy Now Button below and make a single payment of £997:
Or sign up by 10th August and spread the investment over 3 easy installments of £347 taken 21 days apart:
But it gets better:
The adventure doesn’t end when you leave the retreat.
Far from it.
When you leave Shropshire and go back into your life – things will have shifted – maybe dramatically maybe just a little.
And for a few days things can feel a bit shaky –and it’s important to have support and know that someone’s got your back.
So for the following 7 days you will be totally supported.
These 7 days are a vital part of the experience – it’s when everything gets grounded and assimilated.
So when the retreat ends you’ll receive access to a secret Facebook group to share any experiences and insights that come up over these 7 days.
Then on 29th September we will meet online as a group. This Online Gathering will begin at 9:30am and end when everyone has had a chance to share and ask any questions that might have arisen.
Please allow up to 3 hours for this call.
This is a big adventure!
And I will be there for you every step of the way.
And as the Online Gathering closes around Midday on 29th September the Gateway will close as your Journey into Freedom begins.
It’s my honour and privilege to welcome you aboard.
Register here for £997:
Or register before 10th August to spread the investment over 3 easy installments of £347 taken 21 days apart:
OK, OK, I know …
It sounds wonderful but you (quite rightly) want all the practical details before you commit.
Here you go …
Gateway to Freedom includes:
A Private Call with me (approx. 60 minutes) to get you in alignment for the freedom that awaits you
2 Days of Adventure and Magic at the beautiful Park House Hotel in Shifnal – starting at 10:30am on Thursday 21st September and concluding at 6:30pm on Friday 22nd September
1 Night’s Accommodation on 21st September
All Meals and Refreshments:
Unlimited water, tea and coffee (including herbal teas and hot lemon)
Morning coffee (with snacks), lunch and dinner on 21st
Breakfast, lunch and Afternoon Tea on the 22nd
Healthy, free from … options available with all meals
1 Group Call on September 29th between 9:30am – 12:30pm (we might end earlier)
A Private Facebook Group for support and connection with me and your fellow adventurers as you ground your adventure.
All you have to do is get to the Park House Hotel in Shifnal in Shropshire which is super simple, however you travel.
It’s a 4 minute drive from Junction 4 of the M54 with free parking at the hotel
It’s 41 minutes by train from Birmingham New Street followed by a 5 minute walk from the train station.
And Register Below for £997:
Or click on the Subscribe Button to spread the investment over 3 easy installments of £347 taken 21 days apart:
See you soon.